Sarah Primiano I recently visited St. John Lutheran Church for the first time with my sister and my 2-year-old son. While I found the worship service meaningful and enjoyable, I was extremely disappointed with the experience in the church nursery.
The nursery is intended to provide childcare for children up to age three during worship services. Upon arriving, I was surprised by how impersonal the environment felt. The three young women working in the nursery did not greet me or my son, nor did they make any effort to introduce themselves or engage with him. I sat with him for a few minutes to help him adjust, but the lack of interaction from the caregivers made him visibly uncomfortable. When I attempted to share some information about his interests — such as books and toy cars — and explained that he might cry for a few minutes after I left, my comments were met with little acknowledgment.
After I left, I observed through the window for about 15 minutes. During that time, my son stood crying alone in the adjoining room, while the three workers remained in a separate area, engrossed in conversation about college classes. No one attempted to comfort, redirect, or even acknowledge my sons distress. Only after 15 minutes did one of the women approach him with toy trains, at which point he seemed somewhat calmer, allowing me to attend the service.
When I checked back again a short time later, I noticed the nursery windows had been covered, preventing parents from seeing inside, which made me feel uneasy. After the service, I found my son standing in the same spot, still crying. The nursery workers said nothing to me when I arrived. It became apparent that his diaper was soiled, and based on the situation, it seemed he had been left in that condition for some time. One of the workers mentioned that he had “just started crying” after they told him I might be coming soon, but it was clear he had been upset for much longer.
As a former church volunteer who worked with children, including those with special needs, I was deeply disheartened by the lack of care and attention displayed. It is unsettling that a church would allow individuals so disengaged to care for its youngest attendees.
While I truly enjoyed the worship service itself, I cannot recommend the nursery at this church based on our experience. I would strongly encourage any families considering childcare during services to exercise caution.
2 /5
Karen Oster My son used to go to this church and the former Minister is my Pastors father. I was here for a funeral. Beautiful church.
5 /5
Mark Cross Great church with friendly staff. Dont miss their summer Vacation Bible School (VBS) program. Nice facility, beautiful stained glass, and amazing display of congregants crosses on the narthex wall.
In the winter, their gym is host for St. Peters CYO basketball practices, so its great to see the ecumenical spirit between denominations here in town.
5 /5